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Question: music and pictures! help me please!!!

i have just purchased a chocolate touch about a month ago i canot figure out for the life of me why i cannot put music on it, do i have to purchase raphsody or buy a mem card? i cannot sync from windows media player, also tho i do not have a memory card why can i not put the pics on my phone to my computer? please help me! my email is mommieoftwo52206@yahoo.com